tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-83980146482633967222024-02-19T07:04:21.570-08:00Coffee, Venky & MeName: Shruti.
Status: Married to Venky.
What do I write about:My conversations with Venky!
Opinions: Straight from my heart...promise!Venky's bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14018645539552544965noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398014648263396722.post-51837259554012747722015-05-24T00:30:00.000-07:002017-11-19T09:58:15.308-08:00“You can't be value-free when it comes to marriage” ― Al Gore<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<a name="more"></a>Treating another person with respect and valuing their independence is called civility. Not generosity.<br>
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<b><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">While you travel back home each day; </span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">please think two years back today;</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">the day I set my eyes on you;</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">the day I fell for the simple you;</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">the day you opened to me your soul;</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br /></span></b><br />
<b><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">with just a humble goal;</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">the goal to make me smile;</span></b><br />
<b><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">every day without a guile;</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">you keep your promise in place;</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">with a wonder that makes me daze;</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br /></span></b><br />
<b><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">but clarity arises; </span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">as I make promises; </span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">an oath to love you everyday; </span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">with the same commitment as that day;</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">the day I fell for the simple you....</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">The day you opened to me your soul......</span></b></div>
Venky's bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14018645539552544965noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398014648263396722.post-16172509614246032952013-11-08T00:15:00.001-08:002013-11-08T00:15:49.838-08:00This is what I meant when I said "US"<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Dear Venky....<br />
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Got me thinking....over a period of time<br />
<b><span style="color: red;">Time:</span></b>Flies...<br />
<b><span style="color: #4c1130;">Time with spouse:</span></b> Drags....<br />
<span style="color: #6aa84f;"><b>Spouse becomes :</b> </span>A habit, A constant, An omnipresent factor<br />
<b><span style="color: blue;">Relationship:</span></b>Degenerates....Fades.....Breaks<br />
<b><span style="color: #ffd966;">Priorities:</span> </b>change...shopping, reading, meeting friends, haggling with kids take precedence over spending time with your spouse<br />
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Some call it a very natural progression, to me its losing out on time with that one person who has the potential to be ever present for you.with you.<br />
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I do not want this to happen to us.We have to do something to keep our relationship from turning into a glaring truth that is both uncomfortable and shackling!<br />
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I know right now we are thinking career, making money, thinking socializing, making babies and what not.Are we thinking about 'us' ? 'Us' five years later, ten years hence.<br />
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Money will flow...disappear...family will grow, shrink...we do not have control over all this on a long term.But one thing needs to be constant ..US...not U.S or dreams of earning big.(sticking my tongue out)<br />
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Think about it!<br />
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Till then,<br />
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I am doing this amazing course with coursera.org through penn state.....sharing some pictures for products made from junk at work! #cicmooc ...On second I can refine it and actually sell it online!!!!!</div>
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Venky's bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14018645539552544965noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398014648263396722.post-58218783879939447082013-09-13T03:09:00.001-07:002013-09-13T03:23:47.581-07:00An email that left me with a bad taste!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Dear Venky</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Hello to you..I have something very important to share.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Read this link!You will be shocked:</span><br />
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<b><span style="color: purple; font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Read this in a favourite fellow blogger's site....</span></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Here the lady in question is trying to not get back with her in-laws.You know I am a staunch joint-family activist, hence I found the issue very weird...until I read on.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">The FIL and MIL are apparently not very educated and had thrown their DIL and son out of the house when she was miscarrying.Now the MIL is no-more and he wants the son back into his house.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">FIL hates his grand-daughter apparently...and never bothered to check on the family post driving them away.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">In such a situation, son is supposed to take a 40 Lac loan for the family to buy a house where all together can stay???The husband/son is totally caught up in between with the wife saying that money is tight and father brainwashing him everyday.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">The wife is even ready to walk out on him!I guess she is really frustrated and so is the poor husband...But I really can't imagine a FIL like this....??SHOCKING!!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">In all this, I am so glad we have a family where we are really taken care of!Need to thank god for that!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">More importantly, need to thank you..yes, you...You have such clarity of thought and you stick to your decisions..it makes me feel really good and secure!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Stay that way..always (even if it annoys me sometimes that you do not budge!)</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Love,</span></div>
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Venky's bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14018645539552544965noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398014648263396722.post-7900112906126913932013-09-12T00:08:00.001-07:002013-09-12T00:08:06.330-07:00When romance takes an ugly turn...comedy pitches in<p dir="ltr">Helllo venky.....</p>
<p dir="ltr">Cant believe this happened today.....I mean me forgetting my phone is pretty normal...be happy that I forgot the phone at home instead of office....looo.....kitchen sink....fridge...by the way all these hv happened in the past!</p>
<p dir="ltr">When you called me on that ancient landline connection in my office....i   got a transferred call.....l thought why is everyone's voice resembling yours... Aww sooo mushy....only to be shouted at you for my ever forgetfulness....I thank my stars that I escaped your usual bickering by making a joke out of this whole thing......! </p>
<p dir="ltr">Next time I promise......I will not forget my phone<br>
.....scout's honour.....(@ home at least) </p>
Venky's bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14018645539552544965noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398014648263396722.post-10960000510296074142013-09-03T00:16:00.003-07:002013-09-03T01:25:02.747-07:00Pleased to meet you, Venky: An incomplete post to a soulful completion!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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So finally we meet...and you actually end up liking me, am glad!<br />
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As I went to clean up my draft after almost a year of blogging.....the above were the words that I saw.<br />
I do not know what was going on in my mind when I wrote this, but as I got thinking I wondered why did I marry you!<br />
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Now, after a year and a half of meeting you, Eureka!I finally got it.<br />
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<li><b>You are not my knight in the shining armour!</b>You see me as an independent unit...let me take my own decisions unlike the very stereotyped allegations that-- a husband has to take care of his wife.She is his responsibility.You know it unnerves me and you so easily adapted to my needs.I get floored every time I think of it.</li>
<li><b>You give a direction to my impulse and dreams! </b>You do not put down my aspirations, even if it sounds very weird to you.You help me find a direction to fulfil them for me!A NO, always bugs me, but a solution to satisfy my needs or wants gives me a direction and hence a goal.10 million brownie points for you for that!</li>
<li><b style="font-weight: bold;">You love me, realistically! </b>Somewhere, you defy all my notions of a classic romance.I have come to realise that true love is all about standing up for each other in difficult times.And that is exactly what you do.I know how stressed you get, but you still don't give up on 'US'!I am glad that occasional pampering also happens..so please don't forget that too. :P !</li>
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Stay like this, Venky...being with you makes me feels there is so much more to learn, explore..each day together!</div>
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Yours,</div>
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Venky's bride</div>
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Venky's bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14018645539552544965noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398014648263396722.post-39159905142851447492013-09-02T03:55:00.002-07:002013-09-02T03:55:55.322-07:00Year 2 starts: Venky and me are both married and happy at the same time!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Now are we happy because we are married or are we married because we are happy individuals...is something that only dilbert knows :P</div>
Venky's bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14018645539552544965noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398014648263396722.post-3565437745357224502012-02-04T01:38:00.000-08:002012-02-04T01:38:00.850-08:00venky...will u be someone like this?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">A beautiful thought that I got:<br />
A guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... one who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you're just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky hes to have you.... The one who turns to his friends and says, 'that's her...<br />
......... Hold him...He's the perfect soul mate for u..<br />
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Please please please be someone like this.......</div>Venky's bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14018645539552544965noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398014648263396722.post-3361041381809697572012-01-19T06:20:00.000-08:002012-01-19T06:20:12.141-08:0020 things I want to spoil you with...<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">Hi Venky,<br />
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I suddenly missed you....working weekend ahead of me...so thought will drop in a 'hi'...<br />
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You know, I have been making a list of 20 things that I would gift you.....<br />
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I have figured out some of it...so here goes:<br />
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<ol style="text-align: left;"><li>An evening at Udaipur palace</li>
<li>A trip to Athens</li>
<li>A visit to Rameswaram</li>
<li>To leh-ladakh on road....(If you can ride a bike, it will be so much fun)</li>
<li>An evening where you can talk and I would listen...you don't believe me..?!.promise you this one....!</li>
<li>Will cooking something out of the box for you....anything bizzare....anything weird, really, your choice!</li>
<li>Will paint a portrait of you, after learning to sketch ofcourse :)</li>
<li>A walk by the sea, where every step will tell why I love you so much....</li>
<li>A yacht by your name ......really even if you have the longest name on this earth...will still name it after you..considering we being tambrams...I knw our names are rather long :P</li>
<li>Anything you wish...... :) </li>
</ol><div>I am so excited, I hope you are.... :) ....if you aren't...pl see the list is indicative.....we can always alter it :D </div><div><br />
</div><div>Till then....hugs...love you loads!</div><div><br />
</div><div>:)</div><div>Shruti</div></div>Venky's bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14018645539552544965noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398014648263396722.post-38790554505755036222012-01-13T23:20:00.000-08:002012-01-13T23:20:23.254-08:00Men......pheWwwww! Interesting BBM forwards!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Enough of jokes on the ladies. Now its the time for some male bashing..... (For a change).</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Q: What is the difference between men and puppies?</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">A: Puppies grow up. :p </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Q: Why do men always have a stupid look on their faces?</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">A: Because they are.. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Q: What do men have in common with ceramic tiles?</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">A: Fix them properly once and you can walk all over them forever. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Q: If you drop a man and a brick out of a plane, which one would hit the ground first?</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">A: Who cares???\=D/ </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Q: What did God say after he created man?</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">A: I can do better than this! And then he created woman!!!. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Q: What's the difference between an intelligent man & a UFO ?</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">A: I don't know, I've never seen either.:D </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Q: What are two reasons why men don't mind their own business?</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"> A: i) no mind ii) no business:p </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Q: Why did Moses wander in the desert for 40 years?</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">A:! Because even back then men wouldn't ask for directions . </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Q: What is the difference between men and pigs?</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">A: Pigs don't turn into men when they drink. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Q: What makes men chase women they have no intention of marrying?</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">A: The same urge that makes dogs chase vehicles they have no intention of driving.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Q: What do you do with a man who thinks he's God's gift?</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">A: Exchange him!! </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Q: Why do men like smart women?</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">A: Opposites attract. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Indian Men....seriously!</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Chinese man will have a wife and a girlfriend and will love his wife more.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">A black man will have 2 wives and 5 girlfriends and will love his 1st wife more.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">A white man will have 1 wife and 3 girlfriends and will love his girlfriends more.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">An Indian man will have 1 wife and 4 girlfriends ...and he still loves his mummy more...</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Pass this on to women who need a laugh and to men who can handle it! :p</span></div>Venky's bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14018645539552544965noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398014648263396722.post-61299462089385740362012-01-07T01:38:00.000-08:002013-09-13T03:24:20.025-07:00Soboite and Senthil.....<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Hi Venky,</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Here's my ramble for the weekend...</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">I went to Palladium last night...had some good laughs with friends.That was like awesome...one more place that we ought to go to...but that's not what this is all about!</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">I saw some 18 - 21 year old college kids there.Influential families, lots of money...Smooching, making out...drunk...doped...ask me what not.It's not like I care...but it made me remember some beautiful people, I met last year...</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">One of them was Senthil.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">20 years.He's like 6th standard pass.But could not study further because of economic instability.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">He works in a printing unit....prints and fixes flex boards of movies, commercial advertisements...all his money actually goes in taking care of his mom and sister...straight out of a movie yeah...I wish so too.... but its unfortunately real.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">He's in love....with a cousin...gosh, has even tattooed her name on his chest... he's that kinds you know.. "one and only, forever" types...yeah that's him!</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">But he thinks its not going to work out.He hasn't even asked her...?! She's a little more well off it seems..her dad has a garage.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Then I asked him , " why don't you move on, if its not going to work out? "</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">What he said moved me, " I had two choices...wait for her...or sleep with dhanam for 100 rupees a night..she's a local prostitute...I thought what's the point in being in a loveless relationship....I made my choice , I will wait for her.What's life, if you can't hope for some love"...and he smiled...all of his slender frame... wise and serene :)</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">At that point in time, I felt respect for that kid..was it his dignity, his clarity of thought....I don't know what?</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">But such a contrast...in one part of the country.. you have kids who live for the moment and hardly think about anyone but themselves...</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">And there are Senthils...who may not be even educated, forget rich....but has a lot more dignity than those soboite kids in mumbai, they have self respect that commands the same from others....</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Venky, seriously I want our kids to have such dignity in choice..I do not want to influence or teach them to be dignified, forthright, conscientious ....I just want them to be able to make those choices....and be responsible for their choices and decisions...if I am able to bring that quality in them..then I think we are kick ass parents...aren't we?! :)</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Now you will tell me... "woman you growing old..stop analyzing people so much" !</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">bauahah...I just know you..Venky...until then....</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Love you loads....!</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Shruti :)</span><br />
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Venky's bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14018645539552544965noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398014648263396722.post-10556608818342529792011-10-30T10:38:00.001-07:002012-01-06T22:03:25.943-08:00Cheesy lines.......wary minds<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 14px;"><span class="lt-sections" style="display: inline;"></span></span><br /><div class="section-wrap" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"><div class="section-body" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 16px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"><span class="tpx_list_extra_25_most_romantic_movie_quotes_789801-section-body"></span></div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 16px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;">Lucy (Drew Barrymore): “I don’t know who you are, Henry… but I dream about you almost every night. [apprehensive pause] Why?”</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 16px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;">Henry (Adam Sandler): “What would you say if I told you that notebook you read every day used to have a lot of stuff about me in it?”</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 16px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;">Lucy: “I would say that that makes a lot of sense.”<br /><br />Henry: “You erased me from your memories because you thought you were holding me back from having a full and happy life. But you made a mistake. Being with you is the only way I could have a full and happy life. You’re the girl of my dreams… and apparently, I’m the man of yours.”</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 16px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;">Lucy: [she reaches out and shakes his hand] “Henry. It’s nice to meet you.”</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 16px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;">Henry: “Lucy, it’s nice to meet you too.”</div></div></div>Venky's bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14018645539552544965noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398014648263396722.post-41241039394969146872011-10-01T21:47:00.001-07:002012-01-06T22:03:25.961-08:00Arranged marriage...a sure shot way to help you get screwed<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">I am rather proud of my headline....I am going to get a lot of eyeballs, I am sure...<div><br /></div><div> It's 8.20 am in the morning, she's trying to sift through horoscopes of guys.....the horoscope will match and then i will be talking to guys....the couple will try to figure, if we are made for each other or are likely to drive each other mad....!</div><div><br /></div><div>what she doesn't get is....kids these days are scared of commitment...they are like really really freaked out....these kids are as old as 30 even.....umm..nvm...this is the path I have chosen....have to go though it.....</div><div><br /></div><table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: right; text-align: right;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj_b4OdTN6nRTQzAs58WHFVcX2S_oH4xtLXisvEoTP17V_Z3AFr4GNTRwiI3sikjX9LMzv74T2LP_Wa1o61kXqj-ITr22VpWDu-AJ-E2YknF_NqeMqVPs4fcoUW2Obg4a0w7bBKs0G0ViE/s1600/021020111348.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" height="150" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj_b4OdTN6nRTQzAs58WHFVcX2S_oH4xtLXisvEoTP17V_Z3AFr4GNTRwiI3sikjX9LMzv74T2LP_Wa1o61kXqj-ITr22VpWDu-AJ-E2YknF_NqeMqVPs4fcoUW2Obg4a0w7bBKs0G0ViE/s200/021020111348.jpg" width="200" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: xx-small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 9px;">84 year old...trying hard to look into a book</span></span></span></td></tr></tbody></table><div>Though my friends who have been through the phase of meeting guys and getting the right one say...when things happen right with the perfect one....every other thing seems trivial.....never thought I would say this...but I feel someone should have really really loved me and asked me to get married.....it would have been easier..all those things about unspoken trust....mundane living..sharing practical difficulties....and whatever kind of happiness would have been natural and with the flow........maybe not really all that natural..but the willingness to make life easier for one another would have been easier to live up to</div><div><br /></div><div>I think till then, my ammamma( granma) would have to look for my right one in these magazines....One thing is for sure....</div><div><br /></div><div>" I may give up and lose out on my determination to find my right guy....but am sure this 84 year old wouldn't! " :)</div></div>Venky's bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14018645539552544965noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398014648263396722.post-27462205364578652832011-09-06T22:30:00.001-07:002012-01-06T22:03:25.979-08:00Wish you really really felt for me.....A diary of futile yearnings<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">I have been through this before....at least a couple of times or probably more....and every time I bounced back....because I just had to move on...I just had to prove it to myself...<br /><br />This time its difficult....this time I am scared..this time I am feeling lonely...because this time i am not alone...this time I am carrying you with me..its you who is more important...probably always you.....And that is why I feel much more scared than I ever felt before.....but what they say........<br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;">"Courage is about doing what you're afraid to do. There can be no courage unless you're scared." </span><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;"><br /></span><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;">Miss you......</span><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;"><br /></span><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;"><br /></span></div>Venky's bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14018645539552544965noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8398014648263396722.post-87757467366417824322011-06-23T21:26:00.001-07:002012-01-06T22:03:26.072-08:00Train journeys back home...<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><span class="messageBody" data-ft="{"type":3}"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;"><span>Overheard a woman fighting with her boyfirend.He was apparently paying special attention towards a certain colleague. . .she was sitting in a corner and hiding her tears from the rest of us.</span></span></span><br /><span class="messageBody" data-ft="{"type":3}"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;"><span>We were trying not to get 2 involved in her stuff. . .but women being genetically curious. . .we cudnt ignore sighs,bouts of tears and occassional hiccups.I was wondering if we were just nosy or were we all relating this scene to uncertainties,miscommunication</span><wbr><span class="word_break"></span>, in our personal relationships.</span> . </span><br /><span class="messageBody" data-ft="{"type":3}"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">Be it your parents, siblings, family, friends....anyone for that matter. </span></span><br /><br /><span class="messageBody" data-ft="{"type":3}"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">I have read many shady articles...that says talk out problems, will help build relationships...will prevent break ups, barriers whatever......but is it possible to always voice out concerns.....don't we all shut up, when things just don't seem to work out.....</span></span><br /><br /><span class="messageBody" data-ft="{"type":3}"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">Do we just brood over things.....or just accept , stay with and move on.... :)</span></span><br /><br /><span class="messageBody" data-ft="{"type":3}"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">What is the solution to all this? Maybe , just maybe, writing about it helps.....</span></span></div>Venky's bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14018645539552544965noreply@blogger.com0