Sunday, 30 October 2011

Cheesy lines.......wary minds

Lucy (Drew Barrymore): “I don’t know who you are, Henry… but I dream about you almost every night. [apprehensive pause] Why?”
Henry (Adam Sandler): “What would you say if I told you that notebook you read every day used to have a lot of stuff about me in it?”
Lucy: “I would say that that makes a lot of sense.”

Henry: “You erased me from your memories because you thought you were holding me back from having a full and happy life. But you made a mistake. Being with you is the only way I could have a full and happy life. You’re the girl of my dreams… and apparently, I’m the man of yours.”
Lucy: [she reaches out and shakes his hand] “Henry. It’s nice to meet you.”
Henry: “Lucy, it’s nice to meet you too.”

Saturday, 1 October 2011

Arranged marriage...a sure shot way to help you get screwed

I am rather proud of my headline....I am going to get a lot of eyeballs, I am sure...

 It's 8.20 am in the morning, she's trying to sift through horoscopes of guys.....the horoscope will match and then i will be talking to guys....the couple  will try to figure, if we are made for each other or are likely to drive each other mad....!

what she doesn't get these days are scared of commitment...they are like really really freaked out....these kids are as old as 30 even.....umm..nvm...this is the path I have chosen....have to go though it.....

84 year old...trying hard to look into a book
Though my friends who have been through the phase of meeting guys and getting the right one say...when things happen right with the perfect one....every other thing seems trivial.....never thought I would say this...but I feel someone should have really really loved me and asked me to get would have been easier..all those things about unspoken trust....mundane living..sharing practical difficulties....and whatever kind of happiness would have been natural and with the flow........maybe not really all that natural..but the willingness to make life easier for one another would have been easier to live up to

I think till then, my ammamma( granma) would have to look for my right one in these magazines....One thing is for sure....

" I may give up and lose out on my determination to find my right guy....but am sure this 84 year old wouldn't! " :)

Tuesday, 6 September 2011

Wish you really really felt for me.....A diary of futile yearnings

I have been through this least a couple of times or probably more....and every time I bounced back....because I just had to move on...I just had to prove it to myself...

This time its difficult....this time I am scared..this time I am feeling lonely...because this time i am not alone...this time I am carrying you with me..its you who is more important...probably always you.....And that is why I feel much more scared than I ever felt before.....but what they say........

"Courage is about doing what you're afraid to do. There can be no courage unless you're scared." 

Miss you......

Thursday, 23 June 2011

Train journeys back home...

Overheard a woman fighting with her boyfirend.He was apparently paying special attention towards a certain colleague. . .she was sitting in a corner and hiding her tears from the rest of us.
We were trying not to get 2 involved in her stuff. . .but women being genetically curious. . .we cudnt ignore sighs,bouts of tears and occassional hiccups.I was wondering if we were just nosy or were we all relating this scene to uncertainties,miscommunication, in our personal relationships. .
Be it your parents, siblings, family, friends....anyone for that matter.

I have read many shady articles...that says talk out problems, will help build relationships...will prevent break ups, barriers whatever......but is it possible to always voice out concerns.....don't we all shut up, when things just don't seem to work out.....

Do we just brood over things.....or just accept , stay with and move on.... :)

What is the solution to all this? Maybe , just maybe, writing about it helps.....